A few years ago, during a phase of deep introspection, I asked myself what I believed in. I asked myself Why I needed anything outside of myself to believe in.
I think I was at a point of giving up. I was feeling frustrated: I was about to embark on a separation from a 10 year partnership. I was about to make a decision that would change my life and the lives of my kids. I was deciding to leave our family home, our garden, our 4 walls, to move into an apartment. I didn't know how I would financially provide for my upcoming new path. I felt like the stable floor beneath my feet was caving in.
As I asked myself ´what feeds and nourishes my happiness`, I began to understand that what I was craving and longing for was the feeling of having a purpose. So began my questioning of Rituals & Beliefs.
What did I believe in?
What is the purpose of rituals in my life?
In my asking myself these questions, I began to understand why so many belong to religions. Coming together at a place of worship, setting and following certain rituals together, in a way helps many of us feel a sense of purpose.
At this turning point of my life, I realised that I alone had to establish my own sense of purpose. Believe in something, if I feel called to. Create my own rituals, if I feel called to.
I think that believing in something lends us a sense of hope during our human experience. It might help us by giving us a feeling that there is something in which we can set our anchor to. Something which we can trust in, have hope in, and find stability in.
What do I believe in now? To be honest, at this point, I just am. Label free, I belong to no religion. Label free, I belong to no group. I do though, believe in love. That’s the one thing which has remained constant in my life. I believe in love. I believe that love is within each and every one of us, in some stronger, in others more fragile.
I am aware that for myself, my rituals feel good to me (lighting candles, thanking unseen helpers, holding my crystals in my hands), but not everyone has a call to have the same rituals as I have. And that’s okay because we all have the right to believe in what helps us feel good. Maybe we also have more rituals then we previously thought of - my coffee and 30 minutes of quiet coffee time for me, in the morning, is definitely high on my list!
What are some of your most loved rituals?
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